Today is my birthday. As I look back at my life’s journey over the years, there have been several experiences and lessons that have altogether shaped me into the person I have become today. Nothing reflects most of my life experiences and lessons like this piece I found on the internet:
I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them;
I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back;
I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve learned that you can get by on charm, for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something;
I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I’ve learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re downhill are the ones to help you get back up.
I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry.
I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean that they don’t love you with all they have.
I’ve learned that maturity had more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you.
I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while.
I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to forgive yourself.
I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.
I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will get hurt in the process.
I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.
I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.
This day wouldn’t be complete without appreciating all of you who have been part of my life. Your commitments, thoughts, comments, advices, have been a huge influence in my journey towards to achieving my life goal of…inspiring people to live their greatest lives…everyday. Space wouldn’t allow me to mention all of your names here, but I just want to say thank you from the depth of my heart. You guys have been amazing!
Reblogged this on Marie Abanga's Blog and commented:
While wishing my Friend Vincent a happy birthday, it is in all appreciation for his generosity that I re-blog this post of his. Do we identify with some of his life’s lessons?
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Happy Birthday big fella!
And keep learning. That (I have learned) is never ever finished.
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Thank you Paul. Of course, one can’t stop learning. as God’s word says; Everyday speaks, and every night reveals knowledge. You are a big inspiration…thank you.
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Have a blessed and Happy Birthday! (smile)
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Thank you Ann.
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This is so beautiful and so real. Happy Birthday to you and have a simply wonderful time 🙂
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Have a spectacular birthday
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Thank you very much
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Happy Birthday!
I’m only 19.. There’s still too much to learn I believe 🙂
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Thank you Mark. There is really no end to learning as long as we are alive. Everyday offers a learning opportunity.
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Reblogged this on Astrid's Words and commented:
Happy Birthday, Vincent! Thank you for sharing your lessons, these are words that is wise to keep in mind. Have a great day, everyone =)
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happy birthday! Thank you for this post. Very inspiring!
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Thank you too. God bless you.
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Happy Birthday! Thank you for visiting my blog. Growing oneself is my hope for everyone. You have made a wonderful list of discoveries. Blessings!
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Thank you Carlysa. God bless you too.
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I hope you don’t mind, I have taken one of these wonderful quotes, shared it on a side widget, and linked it back to you. Happy Birthday once again 🙂
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Not at all…feel free to share this and any other thing from my blog. Thank you! Blessings.
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You are, ‘loved’ so very much, Vincent. Have a terrific birthday. Spread it out for a day or two. You’ve earned it. Enjoy. Thank you for brilliant post.
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Thank you Kim…You’ve been so amazing and inspiring. God bless you.
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So kind you are. Thank you, Vincent. 🙂
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The lesson you have learned are great gifts that are meant to be shared. Even though I have learned that they are lifes lessons that most people have to learn on their own to fully understand.
Have a Happy Birthday!
Honey
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Thank you so very much!
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Happy Birthday and I wish you many more.
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Thank you!
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Happy birthday friend. May the Good Lord give you the grace to celebrate more of it for many, many more years in the name of Jesus Christ.
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Thank you very much Henry. God bless you
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Happy birthday!
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Thank you Elaine.
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Nice! True talk…
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Happy birthday Vincent, may each of your steps be blessed by our Lord.
I can only agree with your life experiences, they are so so true…
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A blessed birthday to you. Each new day brings new mercies from Him. May you continue to be blessed with wisdom, knowledge and courage as you walk with Him.
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Wish you a many many happy returns of this day sir.
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Hope you had a very happy birthday!!
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Oh yes I did. Thank you very much.
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