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There Is A Place you Are Supposed To Be

“A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.

– Matthew 13:3-8

Where we are determines what grows within us. Our weaknesses and strengths require a specific climate.
Folks you cannot be working on the wrong job, for the wrong boss, doing the wrong things for 40 hours a week and expect to have success. Everyone who has succeeded was doing the right things and had to be in the right location. Geography makes a lot of difference in life and relationships.

“God will not bless you just anywhere you go. God will bless you however, if you are willing to go anywhere in order to obey and please Him!” Just like in the parable of the Sower quoted above, where we are determines what grows within us – weeds or flowers, success or failure, strength or weakness.

Where we are also determines who we know. If you want success then you have to get to where successful people are. You can’t achieve success when you hang around lazy and uninspiring people. Whether it’s in our business, work, life or relationships we need to be in the right place with the right people. So go out there and make yourself seen!

This week go where you are celebrated instead of where you are tolerated. “Seek to be where God wants you to be hourly, daily, weekly. Become more conscious of where you are, where you work and for whom you work.”

There is place you are supposed to be. Get there!

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7 Worst Types Of Relationships Best Avoided

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With all of the different relationships out there, do you know what relationships that are best avoided? Relationships are precious in most cases, but there are also relationships that are best avoided out there too.


The very first relationships that are best avoided is the take, take, take relationship. This relationship is full of nothing but taking! Either your partner is constantly taking from you or you are constantly taking from your partner. It’s a relationship that is not about giving at all, which is not good for anyone. This is a relationship that you need to get out of as soon as you can, otherwise you could lose yourself completely!


The on again and off again relationship is one of those that is really hard to be in, because you never, ever know where you stand in…

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Your Intuition Knows…Trust It

Have you ever been thinking of a friend or family member you haven’t seen for a while, and then the phone rings and it’s the person you were thinking about on the line he or she too was thinking about you? Have you ever awakened in the middle of the night and knew something had happened to one of your siblings or children, only to find out later that it was the exact same moment your brother or child was in an automobile accident? Have you had strong hunch to leave a particular place and immediately you left something terribly happened there?

Those experiences are called intuition. We’ve all experienced this kind of intuition, but unfortunately most of us don’t trust or pay attention to our intuition. For some of us our training, education and beliefs focused on looking outside of ourselves for the answers to our questions. Only few of us have had the training and belief to look inside of us for the solutions of life’s problems.

Most successful and highly accomplished people are people who have developed their intuition and trust their gut feelings and follow the spirit of God in them to guide them.

As Steve Jobs said; “You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”

We are also told in the bible about the workings of the Holy spirit- how it bears witness with our own spirit, our He reveals to us things to come and things that would happen to us.

There are so many ways our intuition communicate with us. You get a message from with as a vision while you are praying, or dreaming. It can come out of the blue or it can be long. Our intuition sometimes speak to us as a hunch, a thought, or a voice actually telling you YES, NO, DO IT, OR NOT YET. It might be a resounding word, a short sentence, or a lecture.

Also it maybe through our emotions- feelings such as uneasiness, concern, or confusion. Of if it is positive you get to experience the feeling of joy, euphoria,or inner peace.
If we want to have the success we crave and work for, then its important we make time to listen to our intuition – through meditation, prayers, studying the word of God, creating relaxing moments in our lives.

Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying, “This is the way; walk in it”

Isaiah 30:21…But you must learn to trust and listen to the voice

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Before You Live Together, READ THIS:

Co-habitation is more common than ever. Maybe it’s the job market, financial insecurity, high divorce rate…. I don’t know, but it’s a trend I don’t see changing. I’m sure a lot of people decide to co-habitate as a first step towards marriage while others do it out of convenience. If I had a little sister, this is what I’d tell her before moving in with her boyfriend.

Talk about your goals, as a couple. Even if marriage and kids seem a long way off – make sure you’re on the same page of the same book. If you both see this as a step towards engagement /marriage, agree on when to talk seriously about it. Be specific, talk goals, say: “I’d like to be able to talk about marriage in a year.” Don’t settle for “someday” as an answer, because “someday” means different…

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9 Body Signals To Show Boredom

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Mastering communication requires you to know whether your speech is being received by the other person. This would be easier if the person listening tells you “hey I am bored or no longer interested in listening to you”. But because we live in a polite society, people tend to use their bodies in sending out these messages.
So here are some body signals conveyed by people who are bored and disinterested:

1. Head supported by the palm, often accompanied by drooping eyes.

2. They show inattentiveness by staring at a blank space (eyes not blinking) or by looking around frequently.

3. They are pulling their ears. This may also signify that they want to interrupt while another person is talking.

4. They are clicking a pen non-stop.

5. They are tapping their hands or feet.

6. They yawn incessantly.

7. Their feet or other body parts are pointing to the exit, as if they are very eager to leave.

8. They move restlessly in their seats. This could also mean that they are not cozy or at ease, or they might just be exhausted.

9. They cross their legs and constantly kick their foot in a very slight motion (particularly done by females).

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