Nothing “out there” or external will make you happy and feel secure, but it sure appears or seems that way! Happiness and security is ultimately a choice, and comes 100% from within. It appears that attaining things brings you a feeling of security and happiness. Things like money, success, a car, a vacation, a lover or relationship, another person, a good job or boss or business, etc.
It seems when you attain or acquire your desires, when things are going well or good, you feel happy and secure, and when you lose these things; your lover leaves you or you lose your job or all your money, you feel sad and have fear to some degree.
When you realize that you can actually be happy and feel secure anytime, anyplace and regardless of the conditions or situation, spiritual goals become a prime focus instead of trying to attain material possessions or get something.
Set a standard to take 100% responsibility of your life and happiness and seek the spiritual and the things of God. When you do this, the results are you are happier than ever in your life and feel more secure than ever and you do get all the things you want anyway!
No matter what the situation or circumstances or current condition you are experiencing no matter how bad it is! Imagine no fear, sadness, depression, stress, anxiety, jealously, guilt, grief, anguish, anger, rage, hate, despair, hopelessness, shame, regret, etc. Only imagine seeing only the “good” and “beauty in everything and everyone and watch your life transform!
Live your greatest life!
Vincent Egoro 
I think a big part of taking control of our own lives lies in relinquishing that control back into God’s hands. Then He can order our lives for the best.
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True happiness comes from first, knowing that there is nothing we can do without the help and approval of God…
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